You see, I’ve had this crush on this guy since the beginning of this school year. Problem is, I rarely see him. I had a class with him last year and then…the end. I only see him around campus or at the fraternity he’s a part of.
I told my roommate Jane about him last year, and she asked if I still liked him this year and I said yes. She has liked this other guy who is also part of the same fraternity as Kevin (the guy I like. Also, I changed his name) since beginning of May. She has classes with Kevin and next semester a majority of her classes will be with him. A month or so ago, she said she was giving up on the guy she likes and focusing more on Kevin.
I’m upset because she knows I like him. She even convinced me to ask him to dance once at a party (didn’t get the chance ‘cause he didn’t show up until the party was basically over). And now she wants to go out with him?
Then again, do I really have a shot? I don’t have opportunities to talk to him, and Jane has and seems to like him now. I’m just really confused, and I want to know if I have the right to be upset, even though I barely know the guy…
So, if anyone reads this, I’d really appreciate it for a comment or two. Even if it’s a “You’re stupid.” At least I’ll have some sort of opinion on this.
I told my roommate Jane about him last year, and she asked if I still liked him this year and I said yes. She has liked this other guy who is also part of the same fraternity as Kevin (the guy I like. Also, I changed his name) since beginning of May. She has classes with Kevin and next semester a majority of her classes will be with him. A month or so ago, she said she was giving up on the guy she likes and focusing more on Kevin.
I’m upset because she knows I like him. She even convinced me to ask him to dance once at a party (didn’t get the chance ‘cause he didn’t show up until the party was basically over). And now she wants to go out with him?
Then again, do I really have a shot? I don’t have opportunities to talk to him, and Jane has and seems to like him now. I’m just really confused, and I want to know if I have the right to be upset, even though I barely know the guy…
So, if anyone reads this, I’d really appreciate it for a comment or two. Even if it’s a “You’re stupid.” At least I’ll have some sort of opinion on this.
I think you have every reason to be upset. I mean, it's girl code for you and your friends or any girl you're close with that once you've set eyes on a guy, even if it's just a one-night stand or if it all goes to shit and you hate him, they just shouldn't go after him. I mean, I could definitely be biased because this same exact thing happened to me with my BEST friend, but still...I feel like a lot of girls get these exact same feelings and we all know how bad it actually feels. It feels almost as a competition, and once you get tired of competing, you just give up, and that feeling sucks too.
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